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Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Mood...

beginning to feel tired
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slightly overwhelmed
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many things still to accomplish
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trying not to neglect family time
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allergies making me want to rip my eyes out
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really want to get back to my normal routine and work out
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super excited
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content, satisfied, thrilled
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grateful
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ready...

Too many emotions all wrapped up together....

Monday, September 12, 2011

Will today be the day?



Yep....It's a journey like nothing we have done before.
It's patience we have used like never before.
It's the everyday waking up and wondering....
Will today be the day?
The day our family will be like never before?
Will today be the day?
The day when someone asks....
and I can say there is 5 maybe 6 of us?

It's EVERYDAY.  It's especially EVERY MORNING....the feeling of....
Is today the day?
Will the call come today??

Saturday, September 10, 2011

The Grotto

It a quiet, special place on the Campus of Notre Dame...
No matter how many times I kneel and pray there, 
I am still overwhelmed with emotions.
On GameDay,
 Ryan lit a candle for Baby 'Opia
and for
the rest of the children and families in Ethiopia!
Baby Opia~
We can not wait to have you home 
but until then
We will pray for you and your Mother, Father, and family!




First Fridays....

The first Friday of every month the students of St. Joan of Arc celebrate Spirit Day.  They are allowed to wear the Monarch Butterfly....

So....when I showed Garyn his new shirt, the smile was irresistible!!!  He was so excited!  He loves his new school and his pride was proven by his reaction!!!


He had a GREAT first Spirit day.....

Friday, September 9, 2011

A DAY NEVER FORGOTTEN


SEPTEMBER 11, 2001 

A DAY I WILL NEVER FORGET
NO WORDS BIG ENOUGH TO SAY ANYTHING MORE...

BEAUTY HAS RISEN BECAUSE OF THE HERO'S LOST ON THAT HORRIFIC DAY...


The Zoo....

Two Sundays ago, we surprised the kids after Mass and took them to the Zoo.
It is a place that NEVER gets old...and like the Museum, we plan to take many more trips there once we move.

Picture our day...













Part 2: Baby Levi....

This is just one of the many reason's we picked Ethiopia!


Ordinary Hero Blog: OH Team 3 Shares About Baby Levi: Team 3's last day in Ethiopia fell on the day that they received the sad news of little Baby Levi whom I blogged about yesterday. We all go ...

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Feel like counting your blessings today???

If you don't feel like counting your blessings today, read this...
It will WITH OUT A DOUBT remind you that even on our darkest and hardest days, we are blessed!

Ordinary Hero Blog: Heartbreak for a Miracle Baby!!: It's been a while since I have updated on Ashli and Restoration Orphanage in Ethiopia. For those of you who have supported the orphanage an...

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Promise Yourself

Promise Yourself 

To be so strong that nothing 
can disturb your peace of mind. 
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity 
to every person you meet. 

To make all your friends feel 
that there is something in them 
To look at the sunny side of everything 
and make your optimism come true. 

To think only the best, to work only for the best, 
and to expect only the best. 
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others 
as you are about your own. 

To forget the mistakes of the past 
and press on to the greater achievements of the future. 
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times 
and give every living creature you meet a smile. 

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself 
that you have no time to criticize others. 
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, 
and too happy to permit the presence of trouble. 

To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, 
not in loud words but great deeds. 
To live in faith that the whole world is on your side 
so long as you are true to the best that is in you. " 
-Christian D. Larson

Gigi's Big Day

Gianna started preschool on August 29, 2011.  She was so very excited.


Garyn gave her a boost of confidence by reminding her that he would be just 'right up stairs' and he explained all of the rules to her.

We got to school in time for a few pictures:





Then we dropped Garyn off and began our walk to her classroom.  Gigi is a very outgoing and talkative little girl, but she was very quiet on our walk downstairs.  Unaware that she was biting the side of her lip, she told us she was not worried at all...

She boldly walked in the room and made her way directly to the play kitchen area. Only the most appropriate place for Gigi (if any of you don't already know, Gigi LOVES to eat!)

I fixed her bow


And gave her a kiss good-bye




And then....Ryan and I were all alone!!  It seemed strange; the quietness.  We took advantage of our alone time and took care of some finances and enjoyed a breakfast at our favorite place, Patachou.  And just like that....it was time to pick her up.
She had a great first day.  The teachers adore her and the feeling is definitely mutal.  She is going to have a great year!!



WAY TO GO GIANNA!
WE LOVE YOU!

Gigi's new days without Garyn

Gigi was slowly adjusting to her days without Garyn...
She misses him, but is also enjoying Mommytime.
Things we have done to keep busy....
*shop

*eat lunch out

*shop some more
*pack
*she insists on doing 'school work'
*read
*play dollhouse and princesses
*play dress up

* and my FAVORITE FAVORITE thing, she has been falling asleep in my arms for her nap!!!  In my eyes, there is NOTHING that compares....so tender, so soft, so gentle and sweet.

Thank you Gigi for loving me like you do.....I love being with you!

Pictures of the day

I guess now that we are in Kindergarten it's time to read the paper?
He has also been asking to watch the news.
What happen to my little boy?



Triathlon

August 20, 2011
I completed another triathlon!  I did not train as hard as I wanted to, so a few weeks leading up to the Tri, I was cranky, worried, and mostly disappointed with myself...so, needless to say on 'game' day, I was a bit nervous.  It helped tremendously that my father (who will be 63 next month) and husband were right along side with me!!

As always....it was so much fun and I did better than expected.  I completed the tri 6 minutes faster than my last one.  So now I am thinking....maybe I should NEVER train?




Monday, September 5, 2011

KINERGARTEN

To all who read:
Thank you for being patient.  As most of you already know, Garyn started Kindergarten this year.  Putting my feelings into words about this major milestone has been very difficult for me; hence my delay on writing about his first days and weeks.

The words I will use to describe my pride, excitement, disbelief, emptiness, and amazement will just not give justice, but I am going to try....

We started thinking about Garyn's Kindergarten year about a year ago.  Ryan and I used many of our evenings discussing whether to send Garyn to public or private, the importance of class size, diversity, our expectations of the school, our expectation for Garyn, our thoughts of including religion in daily school teaching....okay, you get the idea.
Once we decided we would send all of our children to private, Catholic school, we visited many schools and decided on Our Lady Of Grace.  We were happy with our decision, got to know many of the teachers and parents and got involved in different school activities.

HAHAHA....I laugh out loud because even though Ryan and I prepared so diligently on deciding a school for our kiddos, the Lord pointed us in a VERY different direction at the VERY last minute. (This is for another blog, but we are moving closer to the city so we had to pick a different school.)  We decided on a new school in less than 42 hours of our decision to move and thus far, could not be HAPPIER with our decision.  The Lord is showing our family His amazing, amazing love, and I can't scream my joys of loud enough....His love for our family is undeniable!!!!!!!

On August 18, 2011, Garyn was welcomed by the principal and teachers of St. Joan of Arc.  On this special day, I took Garyn in casual street clothes to meet his teacher, Miss Cara and his fellow classmates.  He was so very excited.


We entered the building, walked up a short set of stairs and with a quick left turn, THERE WE WERE.... entering his kindergarten classroom.  Miss Cara introduced herself to both of us and pointed us in the direction of Garyn's welcome bag.  We sat together looking around the classroom, reading the welcome packet and tasting some of the sweets from the welcome bag.



The kids introduced themselves, Miss Cara read them a book titled "The Kissing Hand," and then the best part...they played on the playground while the parents went over the 'boring' stuff.  However, it wasn't all boring.....Miss Cara had each parent make a something out of model clay to describe their child.  After we were finished, the kids came back to the class and sat on the rug.  Once they were comfortable, we explained our 'homemade gift' to them and why they were special.  To the best of my ability, I created Lighting McQueen because similar to Lighting, Garyn is a winner, he is bright like the color red, he is confident, and is thoughtful of others. We placed them along with a family picture on the window seal.  It is a place where the kids can see them anytime they want, especially if they are missing Mommy and Daddy.

WOW!  The hour past quickly and Garyn and I both left very excited for the next day!!

As the evening approached, Ryan and I shared stories and laughs of our Kindergarten teachers and waited for PapPap and GaGa to arrive.

August 19, 2011
The morning of the big day came very fast....we all had to wake up much earlier than we were use to.  Garyn woke up (and has every day since school started) super easy, no complaints, ready to go...
Until we move, we have a drive.  The morning compute to school is a 45 minute drive.  Garyn's wake up call starts at 6:45 am and we leave the home no later than 7:05.  However, in 1 short week, our drive will lessen by 43 minutes.  So if you need help with the math....we will live a short 2 minutes from the school!!

Here is a few pictures to help tell the story of the first morning of school:







  My Mom and Dad helped keep me preoccupied, but I still missed Garyn!  The day seemed endless, I missed him, I was nervous for him, I wondered if he was okay, I thought about his schedule every hour, I repeated in my head several times everything that was in his lunch, I prayed that he was making friends....everything and anything crossed my mind during those hours apart.  Garyn starts school at 8am and is dismissed at 3:15pm.  It is the longest time I have ever been apart from him....and even though we are in a very good school routine now, I still miss him every day!!!!!

But....I must say, the smile in the picture above is the smile I am greeted with EVERY SINGLE DAY I pick him up!!!  So, although I miss him terribly when he is away at school, it fills me with pride, joy and excitement to see him so happy!

I am so proud....and can not believe my baby boy is in school!!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS GARYN!!!  YOU ARE DOING AN AMAZING JOB!
WE LOVE YOU!

Quote of the day...

Haven't done this for a while.... here is a GREAT one!




"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children... to leave the world a better place... to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.  This is to have succeeded."
-Emerson




The Ticker....




9 months 4 days is how long we have been waiting.....it's been slightly longer, but we will use 'The Ticker' for the official count.

Kinda funny, I never needed to wait or use as many patience as I do now to see any of my children....they always liked to come early!

I wish I had more to report regarding our adoption, but we are still waiting.  Our dossier is in Ethiopia.  It was reviewed and stamped by the US Dept. of Immigration in Washington, DC.  It arrived in ET safely, was translated in Amharic, and was given to MOWYA.
So now, we just wait.......for the day our phone rings and we hear "Congratulations, you have a Boy! or Congratulations, you have a Girl! or Congratulations, you have twins!, or Congratulations, you have a Boy and a Girl! or Congratulations, you have two boys!, or Congratulations, you have two girls....!"

Oh!!! that day will be amazing, I try to imagine it everyday....somedays it's harder than others, sometimes it feels like it's all 'talk' and sometimes I can see myself holding babies...
Until then, I will pray for my children (ALL OF THEM,)pray for patience and strength as we continue our walk to Ethiopia!!



Friday, September 2, 2011

Song for the Day!

LAST STRIPE EARNED


CONGRATULATIONS 
GARYN SANFORD!!!

YOU HAVE EARNED YOUR BLACK STRIPE!
WE ARE ALL SO VERY PROUD OF YOU!

in just 7 short months, Garyn has earned 20 tips and 5 stripes.

He loves TKD
Master Yoo, Master Sueng, and Master Kim are amazing instructors!
Garyn loves to go,
We love to watch him,
and
He is always SO very proud of himself, as are we, when he earns a new tip or belt.


His belt, placed and ready to be given...
Master Yoo awarding Garyn his new belt.


One proud TKD fighter!


Next up....

Belt testing.
Garyn will need to earn 4 tips plus a black tip.  
Once earned, he will need to attend belt testing.
He will be tested on ALL of the material taught to him over the past 7-8 months.
When completed,
He will earn his yellow belt!

WOW!!!

Picky Eater

If any of you know Garyn, you will know that he is a very picky eater.
He is very sensitive to food textures and smells.
As a result, his menu is very limited!  
Ryan and I have never pushed him too much for trying new things.
We look at the issue like this....
When he is ready, he will try.

And then,
It started... with a soft pretzel from Target.
Gigi wanted a soft pretzel instead of the usually popcorn treat.  I agreed and, much to my surprise, Garyn said he wanted to share it with Gigi.
He was hesitant, he held it for a while, asked me a few questions about what it will taste like, what he would do if he didn't like the taste,
 and then.....
He took a bit and LOVE it.
So there....now we can add a salted, soft pretzel to our menu.

Then....
last week
8-24-2011
We were eating dinner as a family.  
The dinner menu was Ribeye Steak, baked potatoes, and corn.
Even though Garyn is sensitive to food smells, he LOVES the way a steak cooking on the grill smells.  Yet, he never could muster up the courage to try a bite of steak.

Until....
We were all sitting at the table, Ryan and I were in conversation when all of a sudden, Garyn asks if he could try a bite of Ryan's steak.
8 bites later...
he called everyone to tell them he ate some Ribeye...
So, of course we had to capture the moment so everyone would believe us....


Look at me!!!!!!  I added something new to my menu!


 This week he asked to try spaghetti....and well, the jury is still out on noodles.

WAY TO GO GARYN!


 And then there is this one...
She eats EVERYTHING, ALL DAY LONG.

But she was feeling left out, so here is Gigi eating broccoli!


WAY TO GO GIGI!

LOVE


This is how I found them...
peaceful
tender
sweet